Talking to each other - but how?
Conversations between me and my husband?
Since you say something! Frantically, I remember the first thing to do so. These are usually the daily lives and money. Since there is our son, we really do not talk much. And if everything revolves around the organization of everyday life. Nearby, tenderness, intimacy, falling away fairly. When walking late at night when the boy falls asleep in the stroller, it would actually have the best time, sometimes other things to talk about it.
As for conversations, I am now very limited. My subject is my son. I am always welcome for him. He calls me all the attention from it. The newspaper or Buchlesen I have to make each line twice, because I am not able to concentrate. I love my son, but I feel challenged intellectually. If my husband comes home after, I would also love to get even a real conversation. But it is mostly to the radio or TV, wants to "just know the sports scores. What bothers me and I hurt him das. wants to talk to, but he will recover. He thinks he can receive two channels simultaneously on.
That makes me really mellow. I feel sidelined.