In the beginning it's all about the baby. The partnership is important, however, according to and freedom to create. Not only the baby, the relationship between man and woman needs care. Otherwise there is the danger that two people who have met once as a couple, still in her role as mother and father experienced.

Many couples believe in the initial phase needs not to allow the child to be addressed not. Behind it is often the fear of neglecting the child.

Scope for development:

• In a bassinet child can be asleep at any time the parents' bedroom to another room go off. This is very handy when the couple will even be quite undisturbed.
• Sometimes young children are often grind for hours and nerve Einschlafrituale with. They prevent a joyful and peaceful end of the day and, therefore, quite a torture for all involved certainly sleep sometimes a difficult child dar.. But they certainly sleep better not see them when parents every night on a cot perform the entire show. Eineruhige has proven useful, simple and short Zubettbringroutine.
• Children must not be played incessantly ". Also, not every frustration leads to a mental disorder. On the contrary. For the development of the child heard that not every need is satisfied the place on. Children should not always focus on, the less the larger they are. They often have more of it when their parents take enough time for themselves.