The father role is socially shaped by rigid ideas. The expectation is: "A man must earn enough money to feed his family and something to her. Can offer" men who make more time for being with family, take her to be his, although increasingly accepted. But it must not be too much, lest they fall out of the frame. If they do it anyway, drop their "masculinity values" are often dramatic.

Many fathers rush so after the birth of her child to the profession in order to meet their social mission. The breadwinner role to fill indeed exemplary, but their relationship to the child is often too short.

Men also find it difficult sometimes to very young children make an inner connection. Quite possible that in their own home for the care of the children only the mother was responsible and the male role model is missing. Perhaps the man is thinking also that his partner already better with the child can handle a lot, and is afraid to make mistakes. Or he is the close-together an infant in a way, with unmanly.

A child can not only mothered but also intensively "bevatert be. The uncertainty fades from day to day, more contact with the child's father ever. Father and child in the early years of familiarity with each other, safety and fun experience What basis is one for their relationship. The partner for breast-feeding for a few days holiday pay and alone with the child to spend time is a great opportunity for fathers. Here you can find pure with their child everyday. You will now understand better what it means to assist the child to comfort it, to maintain or make them laugh. The most important thing they learn is that all they really succeed.

The more natural a father involved in family life, the less danger is "that the woman alone standards in dealing with the child sets.

Fathers should contribute their own thoughts and desires. It means the couple can have different views about it, children should look like one, how to attract a child, when you put it in bed, and how it cared for and fed. Each has its own style. Since both can learn a lot from each other.