By pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding mothers are on a very close physical way connected with the child. This area is very special, very many women enjoy. Fathers can only partly shared.

From this "feature" is unfortunately often exclusive jurisdiction of the mother for the child derived. Our company is the parent-child relationship unchanged extremely high and, by inference, often idealized and unrealistic plated Mother image.

Many mothers feel more pressure put under, good to have to do anything special. In the suspicion that a "bad mother to be" like women do not come. Mothers who want to be employed or continue this for financial reasons, must see, but this accusation is often exposed. If they are not working and they have taken over the family work full time, but there is a danger that in its mother's role to lose. Then all of a sudden they are under pressure, with so much time, both the children loose in the handle than h the budget must be auc.

Not infrequently, this results in a competitive situation among women who have chosen different paths for themselves. Because of fear that their own model could be wrong, it will be defended with all their might. Unfortunately, this is the solidarity among women, this phase of life is important in straight, often on the track.

No matter which model family to choose women: It is not easy to distinguish images of coated mother and for their own needs to get the feeling.

the risk to be too much for, well mother to reduce mother photos exaggerated the chances of the fathers to take responsibility for the child. Women, their partners and active father want to do, certainly well advised not to constantly check whether he gets it right.

Helpful, clear and binding agreements: Who is when bathing, changing diapers, watching, Calm and visits to the doctor in charge of? The more precise the agreements, the better!