If parents show up somewhere with her newborn child, affirm all at once, as the baby is incredibly cute. Congratulations! Everyone is pleased with the young lucky, because children are a blessing. No one would dream of saying to parents: "Oh, I'm so sorry for you that you have a child now!"

The norm that children have all a blessing to be in front, is still quite young. As there was no safe contraception, children were the two men if they had wanted to or not. The fact that women of childbearing age, children were given, was scarcely to be influenced normal. Children could not or misfortune, and often both at the same mean happiness.

Today, contraception is relatively easy and safe. The result is a strong desire to-child ideology. "What do they want? They could be free eintscheiden but that would have the child but must get! "It is often said about mothers and fathers, the birth of their child not only to radiate happiness and bliss.

When the young not as predictable as it is today, parents were allowed after the birth of a child of course, ambivalent or negative feelings altogether. There was no drama when a young mother in childbirth were unhappy. She was allowed to curse weep and moan. In the good case, it gave the women who are young mother took care of you, comfort and attention. A child born to have applied, not just as lucky. It could also be cause for despair and anger.

Also from earlier times is still a common practice in some areas: young fathers meet after the birth of their child with other men to atmospheric deposition from the freedom to take the merry. At the same time, of course, is also the happy event to be celebrated.